We started off so well but over the years, life, children and work have distracted us from our own relationship. We have drifted apart and need help in getting close to each other and heading in the same direction. We have decided that the gap between is too large and we need to go in different directions. We want to part as amicably as possible and protect family, friends and children.
We also want to celebrate what was good in our past and learn what we need to do differently in future relationships. We are newly in love and both have had difficult past relationships. We want to learn what we need to from those and to have a clean start in our new relationship together. Traditional relationship counselling uses one counsellor working with a couple or an individual.
We will only start work if both of you are there as we believe it is essential to hear both perspectives and for each of you to hear the other's story. Having two of us in the room means that we can go deeper more quickly and ensures there is a balance and that both of you will feel listened to and supported.
We also want to celebrate what was good in our past and learn what we need to do differently in future relationships. We are newly in love and both have had difficult past relationships. We want to learn what we need to from those and to have a clean start in our new relationship together. Traditional relationship counselling uses one counsellor working with a couple or an individual.
We will only start work if both of you are there as we believe it is essential to hear both perspectives and for each of you to hear the other's story. Having two of us in the room means that we can go deeper more quickly and ensures there is a balance and that both of you will feel listened to and supported.
Services
We believe that one of the greatest gifts in life is a loving, lasting, fulfilling relationship with a partner.
We will use our skills, knowledge and experience to help you develop and maintain this.
We offer a unique service, jointly providing highly effective Relationship Counselling to our clients.
We create a safe space where there is no judgement and give you both the opportunity to express everything that needs to be expressed.
We help you to understand how you got to where you are and help you create the future that you want as individuals and as a couple.
We will use our skills, knowledge and experience to help you develop and maintain this.
We offer a unique service, jointly providing highly effective Relationship Counselling to our clients.
We create a safe space where there is no judgement and give you both the opportunity to express everything that needs to be expressed.
We help you to understand how you got to where you are and help you create the future that you want as individuals and as a couple.
In this situation there are normally three choices; to put up with the status quo, to separate or to work really hard to create a new and better relationship.
We will work with you both to get to clarity about the future and what needs to change to achieve this.
If you choose to separate, we can work with you to make this as amicable as possible and minimise collateral damage.
If you choose to work together to create a new and better relationship, then we can certainly help.
We will work intensively with the two of you to help you create this.
We will work with you both to get to clarity about the future and what needs to change to achieve this.
If you choose to separate, we can work with you to make this as amicable as possible and minimise collateral damage.
If you choose to work together to create a new and better relationship, then we can certainly help.
We will work intensively with the two of you to help you create this.
My partner has cheated on me and I'm deeply unhappy.
I can't believe that our promises and our life together is of so little value that this has happened.
Finding out about this affair is so hurtful to our relationship.
I'm shocked, confused and angry.
I don't know what to do.
I want to hit back, or know all the sordid details, or I want to run away and hide, sometimes all at once.
I feel so raw, and a fool.
What does the future hold for me now?
We need relationship counselling to sort this out, because with all the crying and shouting, we can't do it by ourselves.
I can't believe that our promises and our life together is of so little value that this has happened.
Finding out about this affair is so hurtful to our relationship.
I'm shocked, confused and angry.
I don't know what to do.
I want to hit back, or know all the sordid details, or I want to run away and hide, sometimes all at once.
I feel so raw, and a fool.
What does the future hold for me now?
We need relationship counselling to sort this out, because with all the crying and shouting, we can't do it by ourselves.
Many couples find that what started off as a wonderful relationship fades over time and the distractions of work, career, home, money and children may mean the focus has been elsewhere.
Lives that were once entwined with closeness, intimacy and fun have become very separate.
Conversations that were frequent, deep and often flowed into the early morning become brief, superficial and only about 'stuff'.
Disagreements may be about big or small things but so much is repeated but unresolved and resentment is festering.
Lives that were once entwined with closeness, intimacy and fun have become very separate.
Conversations that were frequent, deep and often flowed into the early morning become brief, superficial and only about 'stuff'.
Disagreements may be about big or small things but so much is repeated but unresolved and resentment is festering.
If your decision is to part, then we will help you get to a safe place from which you can both move to new lives apart.
We will help you understand what has happened and to deal with this.
We will also help you learn from the positives in the relationship and to let go of the negatives.
If there are children that you have had together, we will help you create a relationship over the children that will be good for all of you.
We will work with you as individuals to ensure that future relationships are based on string foundations and that you have let go of resentment and unhelpful patterns from the past.
We will help you understand what has happened and to deal with this.
We will also help you learn from the positives in the relationship and to let go of the negatives.
If there are children that you have had together, we will help you create a relationship over the children that will be good for all of you.
We will work with you as individuals to ensure that future relationships are based on string foundations and that you have let go of resentment and unhelpful patterns from the past.
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